Thursday, January 29, 2009

Joy of giving birth

There is no other great feeling than hearing your baby cry for the first time. Your husband kisses your head or your hand and smiles. The doctor hands the baby to a nearby nurse, who wraps the wiggling, red and screaming baby in a blanket. She walks towards you and lays the most precious thing in life in your arms. The range of emotions that plague your body, mind and soul are relentless. You cry, you laugh, you smile, you shake and suddenly you realize that this is what you have been waiting for all your life. You hold in your arms a life created in your body, from pieces of you and your husband, and it is yours. The joy that sweeps through you can compare to nothing that you have experienced until this point.



It is a feeling that you can never explain to your husband, or any man. You can't explain the emotions that feel your body, refusing to let you speak or say anything unless it is to a woman who has already experienced it in their life. Only another mother would ever truly understand what it means to be a mother.

Monday, January 19, 2009

Birthing classes

You grow up, get married to the man of your dreams, and you start to try to have a family of your own. Faster than you thought possible, you find out that you are pregnant, and as with most normal mothers to be you start to nest. You start thinking about names, and preparing a nursery. You buy clothes for both you and the baby, and as time goes by you start birthing classes.



They teach you about breathing and relaxing and what types of things can go wrong in the delivery room and literally scare you to death. You are on the verge of changing your mind about wanting to be a mother and you go into labor. The doctor and nurses assure you there is nothing to worry about; women have been doing this for centuries.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Home economics

God grants us a few blessings in our lives and some should never be taken for granted. There is no one who can prepare you for being a mother, except God. As young girls we dream of growing up, getting married and having a family of our own. Years ago, you were taught how to cook, clean and sew as part of school. It was called Home Economics. I don't know if that is a class that is even offered any more, but it should be. However, even Home Economics can't quite prepare you for motherhood.